Monday, September 9, 2013

Ni Hau, Jia-ren! (Hello Family)

This has been a very busy week and today is a very busy day so this entry will be short and sweet!  Sister Weng hates going to the store so I haven't been grocery shopping in three weeks- and I have literally been living off of peanut butter mixed with jelly for my meals! Don’t worry though- I change the jelly up with honey sometimes!  Oh, and I can’t forget the really weird Asian fish that is compressed and shaped as meat balls that my Asian roomies force me to eat. I gag.  Every time. They laugh.  Every time. It’s so gross.  I am going to be rushed this time because if I hurry I can catch a ride to the grocery store with a group of sisters and they are leaving soon!  Wal-Mart, here I come!  Sorry, no pictures this week.  The batteries in my camera died and I haven't been to the store! I will get some today though.

Twenty-five new sisters came and I can't believe I'm not the new girl anymore! I'm in my second transfer and it all is just going by so fast. Sister Weng is still my companion and we are still teaching in Mandarin sometimes.  We are still right in the Square too which I love.  We still live in the same house! We have two new roommates-Sister Vargas from Spain- I met her on facebook before my mission. Remember? And Sister Lee (Mandarin-speaking) from California. We have SO much fun together.  Things have really slowed down quite a bit in the last week since everyone is back to school so we have gotten a little break but starting next week we will begin preparation for General Conference and then things will get crazy again!

A of couple days ago the square was flooded with people wearing orange because of the UT and BYU game. So we gave some Texas fans a tour of Temple Square and I told them that Brian Harsin was my uncle. They just went crazy and said they need him back. They kept saying "Does Brian get to hang out in the temple?" or "What are holidays like with Brian?"  It was so much fun because they were so excited.

By the way (haha), John Bytheway came and spoke to us for transfers last Tuesday.  He spoke about the three parables in Luke 15… the lost sheep, the lost piece of silver, and the prodigal son.
 
Each week I choose a Christ-like attribute that I need to work on.  This past week I chose Hope. We can't have faith if we don't hope first.

I was randomly reading in Romans and in Chapter 8, verses 24-28 it says,

24 For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for?

25 But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it.

26 Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.

27 And he that searcheth the hearts knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of God.

28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

After reading these verses it really stood out to me that Heavenly Father will help us but we must have hope for these things and not let little things get in the way or discourage us. Going on a mission was never in my plans; but I had a strong feeling that I needed to go and I know that I must have Hope and Faith that everything will be ok no matter how hard it is. This past week I have been looking back on life before my mission and I wonder why or how I got here. Not that being here is bad but I felt like things before my mission were fine just the way they were.  This mission is hardest thing I have ever done in my life but I am so happy that I chose this path; even with all the struggles, just having Hope makes it all better.

When I first got my mission call I was disappointed because I thought this call meant I wasn't going to be a good missionary and I couldn't actually help people but I thought completely wrong! They send tough girls to Temple Square and I know it sounds like I’m bragging but I don't care. Sometimes we have only 30 seconds or a minute to bear testimony to people who stop by for a tour and then we never know what happens after that. Sometimes we gain this strong connection with people in just an hour-long tour and we don't know what happens next in their lives so we have to have complete trust in Heavenly Father.

I love this mission but lately I do question why I was called here.  Then the other day, I got a free haircut from one of the senior missionaries and she told me a cool story. She said there was a sister missionary here about a year ago and when she received her call to Temple Square she cried and cried because she did not want to serve at Temple Square.  I can relate because sometimes I wonder if I am not capable of converting people and if that is why I was sent here.  But this sister missionary told a story about an experience she had in the MTC.  They were having a big MTC devotional or something and they had one of the elders who was a convert stand up and tell his conversion story. He talked about how he and his parents went to Temple Square as tourists and took a tour given by two sister missionaries. They had a good time and the sister missionaries were very sweet but he and his family didn’t want to be referred to missionaries.  However, throughout the rest of the trip they kept saying how they felt something different, something very special at Temple Square. So they ended up finding local missionaries on their own and joined the church about a month later. The two sister missionaries have no idea that the family was baptized because of the tour!  I just thought it was really cool because it reminded me of how important it is to have Hope that things will work out. Sister Weng and I have been giving awesome tour and not very many refer but that is why we really have to trust that Heavenly Father will continue to prepare them and put them in the right places.

Elder Bednar gave a talk and he said that sometimes when you’re doing something good but have no idea what you’re doing or why- that’s the spirit guiding you. Sometimes you don't even remember doing or saying it! Well, yesterday we took some amazing Jewish people on a tour. It was really good and they were really receptive and nice. We invited them to learn more and they didn't say anything so I did something that is not typical when our investigators show no interest.  I grabbed the Living Christ paper and a referral card and gave it to them.  I didn't even realize I was doing it until Sister Weng asked me why I did it at the end of the tour and I didn’t even know.  Then it came to me that this was one of those experiences Elder Bednar was talking about- it was the spirit guiding me.

Kendall, during this time you are experiencing a lot of new things and changes but I promise everything will be ok! Read Matthew 11:28-30. It has helped me through my hard times on my mission as I have been experiencing new things.

Hello John Family! Sorry that I missed you! Mom, thanks so much for the CD’s, Mio drink mix, the letters, and everything! Oh, and thanks for offering to get me and Sister Weng pedicures but she doesn't believe in pedicures or manicures. True story. I painted her nails and she took it off.

Wo ai ni dou! (I love you all!)

 Nin,

 Shu Park

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